It would be a real shame to wrap up our visit to Cambodia with the last post, so here’s the rest…
You’ve got to love a sense of humor. Hundreds of Cambodians sell souvenirs or tuk tuk rides in the tourist areas. One girl at the temples asked us to buy water from her. Rob said, ‘no we have some now, but maybe tomorrow.’ Without hesitating, she replied, ‘then you pay today and I give you tomorrow.’
While we were in Siem Reap touring the temples, a small Cambodian girl ran up to Rob and laughing, pointed to him, “me small, you big.” He may have been more than twice her size.
Another boy asked us to buy a set of postcards, $1. When we said no, he smiled and said, ‘ok, $100’. He was loving his joke.
Siem Reap to Battambang
There’s a river that runs between the two towns. Nine months out of the year you can take a boat ride that lasts 3 to 4 hours and carries you across the Tonle Sap Lake, then through more than a dozen remote river villages and along miles of jungle.
During the hot season (now) the boat ride is a level of hell – a deeper inner circle punishment in hell. The river, more like a creek, is way too low for boat travel. The trip took 11 hours. That’s 11 hours of sitting in hot sun, on short fiberglass seats, with little breeze and one bathroom stop, sitting on a thin lifejacket with a metal bar lodged into your back in a boat crammed with 30 other people who are equally as sweaty and sticking to you while the boat alternatively breaks down and spews fumes and oil. Our butts are still recovering.
The river villages were pretty incredible though (will post photos soon). Most of the families get by on fishing, but some operate full general stores or fuel stations.
The water was light brown from the mud kicked up from the river. Especially as we moved closer to Battambang, Cambodia’s second largest city, the trash piled up on the river bed and was floating in the water.
The people used the river to brush their teeth, take baths; wash clothes. We saw dozens of children swimming, spitting the water at each other and waving so hard at us that their whole bodies shook. Animals were also swimming, drinking; using the river as a toilet.
As we got closer to the big city, the houses moved from the river to its bank. Stretching between them and the river were long, light blue PVC pipes. We’re fairly sure that the pipes brought water to the homes.
Battambang
In Battambang we stayed close to the night market in the city center. It is a quiet town. Many of the stores were closed, although it may have been quieter than usual since we had arrived a few days before the Khmer New Year.
Most tourists stay in the City to visit the countryside villages. In the neighboring villages they still make rice paper and fish paste (prahoc – fermented fish ground with rice and salt) by hand. We took a day to drive around, visiting a temple and sampling some great food.
We also rode the bamboo train – a 30 minute ride on train tracks traveling through rice fields. As the cart moved forward, every few seconds we’d hit a gap in the rails, which felt like someone punching you in the butt and the blow resonating up your back. The pain goes away for a second before you hit another gap. Needless to say, we didn’t understand the draw, but many tourists say it’s the highlight of their trip (which probably means they didn’t like the country).
Khmer Food
…is really excellent. The best known dish to Westerners is Amok, a fish curry with lemongrass, coconut milk, lime leaves, chilies, garlic and some other spices cooked in banana leaves. There are lots of curries, hot soups and barbequed food.
We loved the thick fruit shakes. Our favorite combo was banana, lime and coconut. Bananas are smaller and sweeter and the coconuts are green and smooth – also much sweeter and the meat creamier than the ones I’ve tried in the States.
We tried jackfruit, a fruit with a hard knobby skin and underneath a yellow fibrous pulp that tastes somewhat like a banana and is wrapped around a hard seed about the size of a middle toe. The oranges have a green skin. The mangoes are smaller and often eaten when they’re still green and sour.
A typical Khmer breakfast is a baguette topped with either jam/butter or cheese, or more commonly meats and veggies. There are food carts everywhere selling bread throughout the day.
Some of the best rice in the world comes from the Battambang area. I especially liked the fluffy short grain white rice. It was light and not chewy. This time of year the rice fields are dry and dusty.
Cambodian Education Center
While we were in Battambang, we spent a day volunteering with Children’s Action for Development/the Cambodian Education Center. It’s an organization run by a local Cambodian, Racky Thy, who is teaching Khmer and English classes to rural children who cannot afford English courses at the schools down the road ($8/semester). Most of the students are poor orphans or scavengers (collecting plastic bottles and cans from the trash and at the dump to trade in for little money). Learning to read, write and speak English gives the kids opportunities for work. We were really impressed by the great work that the Center is doing.
In the morning Rob and I taught two classes of 6-9 year olds. We reviewed pronunciation and handwriting. Both of our classes wanted to hear us sing songs, so we reached deep into our brains and pulled out the ABC song, ‘head and shoulders, knees and toes’ and “do your ears hang low?” (The tune of the latter has been set to Khmer lyrics. It’s now a popular rap song sung by a sexy Cambodian pop star. If they only knew…)
In the afternoon we were guest teachers for two older groups of students. My kids were about middle school age. They asked questions in English and I gave them simple answers, like ‘what time do you wake up in the morning?’ One student asked how old my husband was. I said, ‘30’ and he cried ‘13’!!! The class exploded into laughter.
It was a gratifying day. The children knew the value of the education they were getting. They were absorbed in the lessons – about as much as any 8 year old could be – and didn’t take class time for granted. Education can be their ticket out of the harshest poverty we’ve ever witnessed.
So, if you hear of anyone taking a trip to Cambodia, please encourage them to spend a day or even a week teaching at the Center – of course, they’re always in need of volunteers and donations.
Khmer New Year
We left for Thailand the first day of Khmer New Year. Shops, except for those that cater to tourists and others in the heart of the City, close for three days. On the first day, families go to the temples and offer food to the monks.
I set out at six that morning to bring a traditional cake to the pagoda. Inside the temple chanting played on a set of speakers. The large room was decorated in colorful streamers and strings of lotus flowers. There were long tables, lined with Buddhist monks on either side. In the middle of the tables were large bowls of boiling water. As people came in, they either added vegetables to the pots to make a soup or gave sweets that were then stacked between the pots. Each monk had a bowl and soup spoon.
My exchange with one of the monks was a little awkward (women are not supposed to come in direct contact with the monks), but he was gracious.
Over the three days of the New Year, Khmer families spring clean their houses, they visit the graves of their families, and they return to the pagodas to play games. They play for hours – tug of war (girls vs. boys), duck-duck-goose, etc. There’s one game where you pop your neighbor’s knee with two large, hard seeds. That one sounded very painful.
…so the morning of the first day we loaded up our bags and made the drive to Poipet at the border. And, now we’re in Thailand.